Tuesday, October 16, 2012

#5 A Dress Is a Dress, Oh Yes, Oh Yes!


Dresses of Hope.  That's where it all began for me.  Two years ago I heard about a team from Mosaic Church preparing to go to the Dominican Republic, and something inside me sparked to life with a desire to collect dresses to send to the little girls in the rural mountain village where the team would be serving.  Wanting to be bold and dream big, I asked God for one hundred dresses.  Ha!  He gave me a hundred and fifty!  The enthusiasm of the girls receiving the dresses was so great that I determined to do it again for the next trip, with ideas for how to do it even better.  One of the betters was to include others in the preparation as well as the donations.  The blessing I got from preparing all those dresses for the 2011 trip was too much to keep all to myself again, so I solicited volunteers to help process the 181 dresses that were donated for 2012.  We spent many hours making cards, doing minor mending, ironing out the wrinkles to make every dress look like new, and pinning a lovely card to each dress with a ribbon.  Oh, and most important of all, we prayed over each dress for the girl who would receive it.

Lin making tiny bows to glue to cards
 
Sherilin
 
Lucia
 
Gloria
 
Claudia
 
Lin mending
 
Cards for dresses
 
And more cards
 
Piles of finished dresses ready to send
 
The message handwritten inside each little card says:

"Little girl, you are precious to God.  We pray that
every time you wear this dress you will remember
how much Jesus loves you."
 
That load of dresses was then divvied up among the team members for transporting in our suitcases along with other goodies that had been collected for little boys and for the clinic.  We were instructed to plan one suitcase for our personal things and one suitcase for gifts we were taking. 

It has been reported to me that the first year Dresses of Hope came to Pedregal it was disorganized and confusing, as those doing the distribution hadn't had time to figure out a systematic plan of action.  From that first experience, however, Sharyn came up with a strategy that would smooth out the biggest bump in the process, which was how to keep someone from getting more than one dress while someone else got none.  The word quickly spread that dresses were going to be given out on Monday at 3:30, and by 3:00 the porch of the clinic was crammed with expectant niƱas and madres who appeared on foot from every direction like ants to a picnic.  Mechi, the clinic secretary, stood in the doorway taking down names.  Dozens of names.  As the first page filled up with two columns of names she began a second page, quietly keeping the rambunctious crowd from bulldozing the door. 
 
Waiting for dress giveaway to begin
 
Mechi taking down names
 
Meanwhile, Kristi and I wiped buckets of sweat from our brows while holed up in the tiny storage room, doing our best not to stumble too many times over the suitcases and bags overflowing with dresses, while we sorted and organized them according to size. 
 
Staging area for dresses in the storage/exam room
 
When the piles were ready we hauled them out the back door to the gazebo where they were flopped across the walls for easy access when the gate was opened and the girls were allowed access to our free dress store.

 

Somehow Mechi and Sharyn managed to keep the crowd under control and permitted only a limited number of girls to go back to the gazebo at one time.  Kristi, Debbie and I would quickly size up a customer and make a few selections til we found one that was a good fit and also to her liking, then send her on her way with a hug, a smile and a dress tucked under her arm. 
 
Here they come
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
And so it continued for 45 minutes, at which time we closed shop for the day and learned that we had given dresses to 70 beautiful little girls. 

 

#4 A Greeting By Any Other Name

The whole point of a bunch of gringos trekking off to the DR for a week was to partner with Paul & Sharyn in bringing the love of Jesus to those in Pedregal who are spiritually lost.  Eternity is a very long time, and if we can make the difference for someone between spending it in heaven or spending it in hell, then it is worth every discomfort, inconvenience, or sacrifice.   We were not there merely to do a job.  We were there to engage people in conversations, build relationships, and turn hearts toward the One who loves them unconditionally and has provided the perfect and only way to the Father.    

Conversation is a tricky thing when the undeniable obstacle of language is all up in your face, hindering your efforts and attempting to shut it down through frustration and discouragement, not to mention the embarrassment of failure.  But love is the motivation that compels one to persevere until a way is found to push through the barrier, so push we did.  Some are gifted at picking up language on the go.  A word here, a phrase there, until a small repertoire of useful vocabulary is soon accumulated.  Give one of these auditory-oriented Americans a few minutes with a willing Dominican and before long there will be dialogues in Spanglish that have the power to bond them for life.   Over and over I witnessed this on the job site with amazement.  The local master carpenter, Arcardios, who was hired to provide some semblance of order, direction and aptitude in our construction projects, exhibited the patience of a saint as he gave instructions or made requests for assistance while the rookies shrugged shoulders and waggled fingers denoting lack of comprehension.  "No entiendo!"  Often the fastest way to communicate an instruction to get a task done was simply to demonstrate or use crude charades, bypassing the need for language.  Whatever works.
Arcardios giving instructions to Mark

Arcardios, keeping his thoughts to himself as he supervises Mark
 
Brad getting instruction on bending rebar from
12-year old Diego
 
Derry assisting Arcardios
 
Derry befriending Carlos
 
Brad & Carlos bonded as brothers
 
Out and about on foot, however, we encountered people on every road, around every corner, and along every path, quick to smile and accept us as we waved and called out greetings.  "Hola!"  "Buenos dias!"  Hugs and arm pats were not uncommon, especially from older women, even in passing as we continued on our way.  Whether we were out for our early morning walk in front of our villas in Jarabacoa, hiking from the clinic in Pedregal to a job site and back, or stopping in the local colmado to buy a cold drink, we did our best to make connections through friendly greetings.  The warm responses were rewarding, and we felt genuinely accepted by the people, regardless of whether they yet understood the reason for our presence.

Debbie connecting with a local deaf mute woman
 

Roscoe, perhaps the most thoroughly extroverted member of our team, was caught off guard one morning when he encountered a young woman suddenly in close proximity.  Wanting to be friendly and extend a greeting, he froze while his brain malfunctioned and stalled momentarily, then opened his mouth and with a big smile called out, "Aloha!"  After her laughter subsided, the young lady returned his greeting in kind, and throughout the rest of the week she and various other locals could be heard calling out, "Aloha!" to the gringos.  But it was all done in fun, and we laughed along with them, using even that glitch as a connecting point between cultures.

Roscoe